Happiness may be fleeting, but once you attain internal peace, it cannot be taken away from you.
You might lose sight of it temporarily, but it will always be there – the base from which you operate.
You, can reach that state in life, as well.
You, can turn your life around.
Do not believe them, when they say that, this,is all there is to life!!
How Can a Life Coach or a Life Strategist Help You?
Therefore they can help you manage your life, and your life’s challenges, very much like one would manage a business; however taking into account emotions, human weakness and potential, and the complex dynamics of human relationships.
A Life Coach helps you make changes in your life, by giving you structure and holding you accountable. You may wish to make a change in your life, but don’t know how or where to start. Or you may simply need someone to push you to take action and keep you on track. That is the Life Coach’s job.
On the other hand, a Life Strategist is a life coach who helps you make choices and set your life-vision. A life strategist’s job is to ensure you create a balanced vision, and a solid road map to achieve it. For example, he or she may help you find your life purpose, and then to devise an action plan of how to move from your current occupation to your life passion.
Life Coaches and Strategists are not limited by the client’s self-bias and perceived limitations, and therefore challenge the client to set higher goals and visions. They usually have gone through similar experiences themselves and learned structures and life-skills that can be applied to various life situations.
What do I Bring Different to My Clients?
- A rich set of tools – One of the main things I am able offer my clients, is a rich set of tools. These tools come from my passion to research and test out, different tools and methods to improve life situations, sometimes including less conventional methods. My way of coping with problems was by applying myself – learning new solution, approaches and methods I had never been taught before; and dedicating time to experimenting. It gave me hope, kept me positive and of course busy. In the process I built a set of tools that actually work. I very rarely advice a tool or method to a client, which I have not tried myself.
- Paradoxical approach to problems – Like everyone else, at the start of my independent life, I used the obvious and traditional ways to deal with life challenges. But they never worked, and rarely helped. So I started some serious research. I just new there was a different way. I knew there was more. I read incessantly and all types of books from all backgrounds and spheres of life. After trying and testing a few methods for different life challenges, I started to see a pattern. The methods that work, are not the conventional and obvious but neither the fanciful or weird, but those that at first may appear paradoxical, but when thought through, make perfect sense.
- Defying the norm – I have lived my life against the grain; I have chosen options that at the time were, or still are, considered unthinkable; and, each time, I knew they were the right ones for me. People raised their eyebrows and probably thought I’m crazy. But I just saw that human beings, limit their choices at every step of the way. Now, some of the same people tell me they wished they had my guts, or that they had also seen those life options. The reality is just, that I questions, the “shoulds ” and “musts” in life.
- Trauma Informed. What led me to learn, and do all this? You’ve guessed it trauma-response. I did not have an easy start in life. There was not much opportunity for me to develop my identity, or my self-esteem. In the process of learning how to heal this, I learned what was missing in my childhood, and what made me different. I went through the exciting journey of building my own self-image and self-esteem rather than taking it all for-granted, I learned what happens in the mind of with difficult childhoods or toxic relationships. And of course I wanted to learn how to help people like me, which led me to some of the best trauma treatment courses.
Backed by my knowledge, strengths, and varied life experiences, I will help you reach your goals through sometimes unexpected yet simple methods, and the application of a wide variety of tools.
“I am also seeing others respecting my needs more.”
P. L. (Malta)
Are You Ready for an Exciting Life?
Have you tried to lose weight repeatedly, but failed or gained it all back? Do you feel that you are addicted to food?
I have had the blessing of helping clients with all of the above, and more.
Wishing you an amazing life