Is it the Hardest Thing?
Finding love and maintaining successful relationships can indeed be challenging for many people. While it may seem like some individuals effortlessly meet their soulmates, the reality is that the journey to love is unique for each person. and comparing oneself to societal expectations can create unnecessary pressure and self-doubt.
For some individuals, meeting new people can be challenging. They may struggle to expand their social circle and connect with potential romantic partners. Others instead may have various options but find it difficult to progress beyond the initial dating phase and establish a meaningful and lasting relationship. Others yet face a pattern conflict and disrespect in their intimate relationships.
Society creates the notion that meeting our soulmate is effortless and universal, but reality often challenges this belief, leading us to question ourselves.
Sometimes the stronger and more accomplished someone is, the more difficult it seems to finding love. Despite their determination and success in other areas of life, they may encounter obstacles when it comes to romantic relationships. It can be frustrating and disheartening when patterns emerge or attempts to address the issue don’t yield the desired results.
Many strong and high-achieving women, feel that they can achieve anything they set their mind on, but have failed repeatedly when it comes to finding love.
They may notice a pattern or even understand why this is happening, but all their attempts to fix it, fail. How is that, when their determination has made them successful, in all other areas of their life?
Do you feel lonely and different, and think you will be single forever?
Have you concluded that all men are afraid of commitment?
Do you think they are all narcissists and do not know how to respect a woman?
Do you think there is something wrong with you because you never manage to take a relationship beyond a few months?
There is a Way
Attracting Love and dating, require a different approach from all other areas of our life.
Understanding how our past may be effecting our present is helpful, but not enough.
Giving even more, or playing games, are two of the common dating advice given by loved ones but are also not the answer.
The path to better relationships is a mix of personal growth, and practical techniques, that help us avoid past problems and patterns.
If you want to start enjoying dating and increase your chances of finding love, contact me, for a meeting, and learn more about my Attracting Love and Dating Advice/Coaching service.